Signs That Your Partner Is Cheating

Has the thought ever crossed your mind that your partners cheating on you? Maybe you dont have any hard evidence, but your intuition says somethings wrong?

Start watching carefully. See more than a few of these warning signs, and it is time to start taking your feelings seriously.

Perhaps your partner has suddenly started exercising more. Or their underwear, clothes and shoes have had a major update. Theyre constantly on their mobile phone, and its stuck to them like glue.Its even taken to the smallest room, and has a new password that you dont know.

WhatsApp has started to dominate their whole life, but the preview and message notifications have been disabled. And the last online indicator has been switched off so that you dont spot that they were using it was while you were asleep.

Suddenly theyre sleeping much more quietly, after ignoring your complaints for years. When you comment they say theyve figured out the right sleeping position or have lost weight. None of that was for your benefit, of course.

Theyre cutting themselves out of your activities and avoiding your mutual friends. Theyre coming home later and later, and there are far more work events, business trips, and drinks with an exciting new client.

Theyve totally stopped answering their phone while theyre out.

You catch a whiff of perfume or aftershave. If you mention it theres a feeble excuse, and it never happens again. Their squeeze has been told to skip the fragrances.

Suddenly, your partner doesnt touch you, doesnt want to be touched by you, or ask for sex. And when you try to be intimate they make excuses. Its because they want to be faithful. To their new love.

They no longer show interest in your day, and stop sharing their day with you. You feel like the third wheel in your own relationship. You panic and go on a self-improvement please dont leave me spree. Thats actually the first stage in the grieving process.

If you start asking questions you just get everything thrown back at you. They try to get you to doubt your own instincts by telling you that everything is your fault. Or that your memory is faulty. Until gradually you start to believe the problem really is you.

Youre being gaslighted.

The plain fact is that your partner will never admit theyre cheating unless youre able to confront them with some hard evidence of whats going on, like hotel bills, photos, or social media posts. So avoid any confrontations until you have proof.

Then perhaps theyll talk, and you can start putting your marriage back on track. Or maybe not.

Not for nothing is it called a living grief when a marriage ends. In fact it will be the worst thing youve ever lived through. Your anger will last for ages, but not for ever, and youll start to move on.

Sadder, wiser, but making a new life thats better than before.